The Myth of Media Naranja

It's a great myth about the relationship as a couple. Go through life looking for our half, but perhaps we are not oranges, but grapefruits or lemons. So, why strive to find our other half?

In life there are no halves partner, but individuals and complete, but the reality is that this belief is rooted in a desire children, totally dependent and plagued by a series of expectations that the couple must meet.

How to walk in search of half an orange or citrus and we are, because we're always in trouble. We are seeing only part of reality. One myth we are more oriented towards the suffering into a reality. The couple is a complement of human life is essential, through it we transcend, we love, we deliver, we get together and love each other, and besides, we live and we accompany in common.

However, when we are thinking that the couple is one that we will complete as a result, means that we are incomplete in life. In this way we feel frustrated, disappointed and angry and suffering when our partner fails to fit between our thoughts, feelings and desires. Opposite can also happen when I am unable to fit between the couple ...

So began a process to be quiet, to yield, to allow, to blur. We become "like" better half. We become what we are not but we become like our partner needs to be. So we go through life as a couple trying to be what we are not having a color that is not ours, trying to be fruits when we are human.

Humans are not an orange and, on the contrary, we are beings that every day we are growing and developing our life, but live life as half, to be with the half-life, half of love, Half of the joy, the problem starts when for whatever reason, one half, it starts to rot.

That means I'm going to infect the same. That is, if I live with the infection of violence sooner or later as I am half will go, if my other half is sick with jealousy, of course, that will come into my life with suspicion and abuse. Yes my other half can not stop being unfaithful, then, very soon I'll live with that half of feeling left out and abandoned.

You realize the implications of being next to a couple who is considered: the pet?

We are individuals and that is our wealth, therefore, gives you 50% but not your 100% to your relationship and surely you can live a more satisfying relationship.

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